Male infidelity is always painful for a woman. As a rule, intuition tells us that a loved one has an interest “on the side”. In addition, a man is often given out banal household trifles that can tell about his betrayals. Having found undeniable evidence of betrayal, it is always necessary to remember what is important for you: revenge or keep the family?
The portal “Women's Opinion” held a vote, the purpose of which was to answer the question: “Is it worth taking revenge on a man for treason?”, As well as to hear explanations why this should be done or, conversely, why one should not consider male treason as a reason for revenge ...
The fact that adultery should be avenged is certain 36, 2% of the fair sex. Some believe that it is necessary to take revenge with the same coin - to change a man with another, in the style of: made muck - and joy at heart! Moreover, it is not necessary for the "beloved" to know about it, the main thing is to experience your own satisfaction from the fact that the gulen is now "also horned."
Someone is preparing a more filigree and thoughtful revenge: “I will avenge, of course, but not by retaliation. Nah, my revenge will be much worse - I’ll throw the guitar and computer from the balcony. And then let the whole thing change” ...
There are opinions that one should not take revenge on a man who has changed, but a woman with whom he has changed: “It is not a man who needs revenge, but a woman with whom he has decided to confuse, and only if she is not a litter for once, but if he seriously loves her and all that, or if he managed to make her children for her. "
Everyone reacts to treason in different ways: someone has a nervous breakdown, psychosis, hysteria and a desire to revenge immediately. Caused resentment causes hatred and anger. Some, on the contrary, have a desire to purposefully bear a plan of revenge.
Nevertheless, the majority of women - 63.8% - believe that treason is not a reason for revenge. At the same time, some justify the man in this situation: “It is extremely rare when a man changes“ just like that ”because he wants it so much. Basically, a man changes because he lacks some feelings, sharpness in relationships, when can't shout to his wife. "
"You can’t take revenge at all. Everything returns to you, only with even greater evil," one of the participants in the voting describes the so-called boomerang method. "The thirst for revenge, anger, resentment and jealousy burn you from the inside. That is, health problems begin - believe it or not, if you want."
Someone is ready to forgive and try to live together further, but there are opinions that relations in the family will no longer be as trusting and warm as before, "... but without trust in the family, this is no longer a family" ...
In this poll, 1892 people voted. The age of the participants is from 20 to 38 years. Girls and women from 132 cities of Russia, Ukraine and Belarus took part in the vote.
