At some point, did you begin to notice that your child, returning from school, expresses inappropriate words and behaves unusually? This can be understood: most often, it is a sign of adaptation to a new team. In such a situation, you should help your child learn to distinguish the good from the bad and correctly navigate among classmates.
It is more difficult for children who did not go to kindergarten to join the team, rather than those who attended it. Such children do not know how to behave in a large team and in order to adapt somehow, they begin to borrow someone’s behavior.
From kindergarten, kids grab whining and teasing, in school the most new and interesting for them is often boasting and bad language. We will understand these interests in more detail.
Boasting
Often you can hear from children that dad is a tough businessman, that he will be presented with a cool mobile, car or even a villa on the islands. In class, it helps to stand out from the rest. Even if the child does not have a cool phone, for others he should have it. If dad is a simple worker, he will not say this, but will invent a story about a businessman or president. What should parents do in this situation? First, do not scold the child. Because of his age, he cannot stand out in a different way, and therefore begins to invent fables. It should teach the child to allocate themselves correctly. Discuss with him what he can do brilliantly: play football, learn poems, sing songs, draw, dance. Let him learn to praise himself with real things.
Foul language
Often, children begin to speak obscenely, repeating after someone like parrots. But they simply do not understand that it is not always good to repeat. Not distinguishing obscene language from censorship, they boldly use bad words and expressions. However, if the child says "no" and does not explain why, he will do it his own way. Therefore, you should talk to the child seriously and explain the difference between good and bad words. And even better if you do not use obscene language yourself. After all, parents are the most important example for a child. And if you use obscene expressions, the child will not accept your conversation and will continue to use the same bad words.
