A lot of things change with age: views on things, dreams, desires, relationships with a loved one. Women are increasingly asking the same question: "What do men want?" A concrete answer to this question simply does not exist, and the whole snag is that men of different ages want completely different things.
What is characteristic of the behavior of a thirty-year-old is unacceptable for a fifty-year-old. The main thing is the ability to find an approach and find the right key at the right time to the heart of a loved one. Yes, a lot has changed over the years, but there is one desire that is inherent in men of any age - each of them wants love, support and understanding on the part of his beloved woman.
At 20 years old
At this age, men themselves cannot say what they want. The soul craves adventures, so they go in search of them. When hormones do not allow you to think about anything other than sex, you unwittingly look for the most beautiful girl in the crowd and fantasize about what to do with her.
Twenty-year-old boys promise a lot to their girls, and all just to crawl under their skirts, because the female representatives at this age are naive and trusting. And, in principle, all women love with ears, as you know. While the girls dream of eternal love and imagine how in the distant happy future they marry their boyfriend, they are just experimenting. They see the lady as a textbook in mathematics: nothing is clear yet, a lot needs to be learned. At this age, they do not need a serious relationship. They are too young, still too windy and want to find the same girl, rather for a pleasant pastime. Young ladies in most cases are still inexperienced. If he screwed up, then she would not notice. There is nothing to compare with.
At twenty, boys judge girls by how beautiful they are. I want to take care of such a person, spend leisure time with her, and show off to friends. After a little time, the guys realize that it’s stupid to judge by the cover, because they fall in love not with their appearance, but with their soul. The realization of this comes to them after several proud and independent beauties break their hearts. Although, even after this, young people do not stop looking at pretty girls. If she is not only good-looking, but also smart enough, she will find an approach and be able to push them around as soon as she wants. Indeed, in our weak female hands are the main levers for controlling men of any age - sex, beauty and tenderness.
At 30 years old
Statistics say that it is at this age that most men realize that they are ready for marriage and want to start a family. Let's see why this happens.
As already mentioned above, at the age of more than twenty, men prefer women to satisfy their sexual needs and gain experience in dealing with the opposite sex. When the representative of the stronger sex exceeds thirty, he begins to perceive the lady as an interlocutor, a person, the mother of her future children. Sex no longer ranks first in life. I want to think not only about my pleasure, but also about the satisfaction of my beloved.
At this age, men are divided into two types:
1st type: they realize that it’s important not only for women how sexy and handsome they are. They are looking for such qualities as strength, mind, sense of humor, kindness and others. Those who are ready to say goodbye to youth and frivolity turn into adult, serious real men. They have a turning point in thinking, a complete reassessment of values is underway. Much that seemed important becomes empty and meaningless. It's time to settle down and think about the future. Fleeting sex with a stranger no longer seems attractive to them. There is already not enough strength for this, and there will be no desire. I want to climb up the career ladder, improve the financial situation of my family.
2nd type: they understand that they are not at all ready to say goodbye to the life in which today one woman cooks breakfast, and tomorrow another. Men of this type do not want to grow up, do not think about creating a family. They turn into inveterate bachelors who themselves do not know what they want and are in the eternal search for something ... to know more what exactly. They like freedom, they are completely satisfied with this way of life. To approach a woman is something wild and terrible for them, because men of this type are piously convinced that this will not lead to anything good.
At 40
At this age, men often experience depression. They get bored, bored with family life, and begin an active search for someone on the side. Someone who can surprise, thrill and make the heart beat again at a frantic speed. At the age of forty, many give birth to young lovers, some use the services of prostitutes.
Men do not like to live quietly and calmly. The wife automatically loses the status of the most coveted woman on the whole planet and turns into a person who is just fine, has a lot in common, and I just want to wrap myself with a blanket and watch my favorite series together.
At this age, male hormones become less violent. I rarely want sex, but, as they say, aptly. Men begin to fantasize and are trying in every possible way to diversify their intimate life. Normal sex in bed no longer brings past pleasure. After a man realizes this, admits this to himself, he begins to raise such a sensitive topic in conversations with his soul mate. Not every forty-year-old woman agrees to experiments in bed and to spontaneous sex in public places, for example. Do you want to - believe it, want it - do not believe it, but this is precisely the reason why marriages break up. A man wants diversity, but a woman does not consider it necessary to bury her head with such nonsense when all thoughts and forces are directed at children, their future and work.
At 50
Men who have reached this age have only one desire - to live in peace, without any surprises and surprises. There is a crisis, and with it another depression, accompanied by thoughts about his inferiority and uselessness.
There is a desire to have sex, but health is already starting to fail. It is at this age that many men have problems with erection. And, as you know, for a man it is a great shame that he cannot give pleasure to his beloved.
Men begin to see in a woman a best friend who will always help, support and understand. They want to be understood, not offended by strange behavior and given time to spend it in thought, alone with himself. They do not want to explain a hundred times what happened and why today there is again no mood. A woman who has been together for many years knows how to feel the internal state, and knows when to stay close and when it is better to step aside and wait.
At 55-60 years old
Men are increasingly feeling the rapid and irreversible approach of old age, so they are trying in every way to prove to themselves that not everything is lost and that life has not yet ended. To feel young and attractive again, they go in search of young beauties, the age difference with which is almost 30-35 years. Men drive them to posh restaurants, try to win over them in every possible way, and rejoice like little children when they receive even the smallest portion of flirting from their subject of adoration. Yes, from the outside it looks like a father invited his daughter for dinner, but who cares? The main thing is that young nymphets do not remind of impending old age, and they are not scattered with scary words, such as "prostate adenoma" and "atherosclerosis", because they simply are not familiar with them yet.
But, not all men who have crossed the line at fifty-five years are sent to look for a young lover. Some, on the contrary, begin to feel a special connection with their beloved wife, which they seek to strengthen in every possible way. They are trying by all means to please the soul mate, to please her with something, to ask for forgiveness for the endless tricks that she had endured for all the years of marriage. Finally, you can get something that both have long wanted - calm, travel, romance. Children have long been adults, they are already creating their own families.
Everything turned out exactly as I wanted, thanks to my beloved, who was always nearby, she served as support and support. At this age, representatives of the stronger sex experience great pleasure when they manage to simply become the reason for the smile of their woman.
