A wedding, a white dress, a bouquet of flowers and joyful guests - this is how family life begins, but its further development has thousands of options, unlike each other. Someone gets a stable and calm happiness, others are constantly fighting for their marriage. If life together is bursting at the seams, you can not find a common language with her husband or he is in a difficult situation, resort to a comforting prayer.
The power of prayer for a husband
Turning to the higher forces, you will find the necessary answers, but not all are able to recognize them and distinguish between signals. Prayer is not an instant panacea that removes all troubles and misfortunes in an instant, but it has tremendous power. There is a belief that women's prayer embodies the energy power in great concentration. Nicholas the Wonderworker equated the strength of the petition of the wife for the husband to the maternal prayer, which is cleaner and deeper is impossible to find. But the power of a woman is not so safe: if a spouse went to another woman, it is not recommended to use prayer to control and subordinate his will.
By praying, you surrender yourself to the power of God, denying anger and pride. Only in this way will the appeal be perceived in the right light and be heard. Realize that true love does not carry egoism, so prayer for the husband must be freed from any claims.
Why pray for a husband? In society (most of it), it’s gotten in such a way that a man carries the main share of responsibilities. Accordingly, the responsibility falling on him is higher. Deal with this is not easy, so the woman becomes a support. To say a prayer for your spouse is to ask the blessings of your union from Heaven.
How to pray for a husband?
A woman who asks the supreme power of assistance for her spouse should say the prayer book correctly:
- Reading canonical prayer is desirable, but it is not a prerequisite. You have the right to use your own words, pronounce them out loud, or pronounce them in thoughts. This prayer is distinguished by sincerity, not a thoroughly learned text.
- Even if you are offended by your spouse (for example, in a situation of adultery), do not speak ill of him. A bad thought, even if it is not voiced, has destructive energy, which has no place during prayer.
- Frequent prayer is a guarantee that the saints will hear the request, since the power of the faithful spouse is limitless.
- When you pray, you need to be aware that you are not making a spell or plot, but are turning to the Almighty. Be pious and modest, hold back emotions and do not give vent to feelings, even if your heart is heavy.
- In the prayer, mention the name of the husband several times. Calling the second half "bunny", "cat", "beloved" and other gentle words is not recommended. Leave such momentum for communication in private.
When a prayer for a husband is read, the power of the praying wife, if she has real feelings for him, acquires an unprecedented value. Remember this and never ask a higher power to punish or punish a spouse for his misdeeds. You will not return what has been said, and then you will repent strongly if misfortune happens to your husband.
Types of prayers
If you want to help your beloved spouse, you can pray for him about things like:
- Preservation of health, protection from diseases;
- Good luck on the road (prayer-charm);
- Success in work and promotion on the career ladder;
- Financial independence, resolution of material problems;
- Prayer to strengthen the marriage bond;
- Protection against the evil eye and damage;
- A prayer for the strong will of her husband, that he should not fall into the temptation of treason.
Most often, the wife in prayers turns to the saints, asking health for a dear person, of which there is nothing more precious in the world. You can pray for healing or good health for your husband to several saints. It’s safer to call Blessed Matrona of Moscowwhich sends deliverance to the suffering, not refusing to anyone. Her prayer sounds like this:
"O blessed Mother Matrono, hear and receive us now, sinners, praying to you, skillful in all of your living and accepting and hearing all who suffer and grieving, with faith and hope to your intercession and help of those who resort, quick help and wonderful healing to all who suffer; let not your mercy be depleted now to us, unworthy, restless in the multitude of this world and nowhere find solace and compassion in the sorrow of the soul and help in bodily diseases: heal our diseases, save us from the temptations and torments of the devil, passionately fighting, Ozi to bring his life Cross, to bear all the life and not to lose the image of God in him, the Orthodox faith until the end of our days to preserve, hope and hope for God strong imaginative and unfeigned love for others, help us to leave the Kingdom of Heavenly all those who pleased God, glorifying the mercy and goodness of the Father in Heaven, in the Trinity slavimago, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, forever and ever. Amen. "
You can communicate in prayer with Matronushka both in the church and at home, but if you have visited the temple, do not hesitate and light a candle in front of the altar, asking for it. to god:
"My Lord, my Creator, I ask Your help, grant healing to God's servant (name), wash his blood with Your rays. Only through Your help will healing come to him. Touch him with miraculous power, bless all his ways for salvation, recovery, healing. You will give his body health, his soul - blessed lightness, his heart - divine balm. The pain will recede, and his strength will return, and the wounds will heal his physical and mental health, and Your help will come. Your Rays from Heaven will reach him and give him protection, bless for the healing of his ailments will strengthen Yeru it. Yes, hear the prayer of this very Lord. Praise and thanks to the power of the Lord. Amen! "
The power of maternal love is immense. Mother of God Theotokos will hear the pain of a woman and send her peace. It is necessary to pray for the healing of a spouse in the address of the Mother of God with the words:
"O Mother of God, help and protection is ours, always ask, wake our savior, we hope for Ty, and we always call upon Ty: we have compassion and help, take pity and deliver, bow your ear and accept our mournful and tearful prayers, and likewise reassure and cheer us, those who love your Son of our First Son and our God. Amen. "
Also considered a very strong prayer Cosme and Damian for the health of her husband.
Lord god
For a man, a successful career is the primary factor proving his viability as a professional and personality. It is no secret that many representatives of the stronger sex put their careers in the first place in the list of personal priorities, relegating the family, spouse and even children to the background. To argue about how this is appropriate and correct, we will not. If a woman enters the situation and supports her spouse in everything, it will not be out of place to pray for her husband about work and health:
“Lord, my Father in heaven, I ask you to help my husband find and fulfill his purpose. Bless his work, let her bring him success and financial prosperity. Let him get satisfaction doing his job! Let people respect and appreciate him! Open your heart to him, Lord, so that everything he does will coincide with Your Divine plan. Give him optimism, Lord, grant energy and strength, so that in joy he will work for the good of himself and the whole society. Help him rejoice in his success and appreciate his achievements. May his every step and sigh be sent to meet You, Lord! Bless him on his journey! Help him gain confidence and open the doors of the future to him! Protect him, Lord, from all enemies and ill-wishers! Help him grow and improve! I pray, Lord, that I may be a worthy companion to my husband! To be able to support, delight and inspire him to new achievements! May our union be strong and pleasing to You! Thank you, Lord, for all that You give us and surrender to the will of Your saint! Be blessed, Lord, forever and ever! Amen!"
Remember that praying to the Lord for financial and career well-being for a loved one will bear fruit only if you are sincere in your words. Many wives are jealous of their spouse for work and constantly reproach him because of employment and inattention. It is impossible to experience such emotions and offer this prayer to God. For starters leave insults and only then appeal to the Creator with any request.
Nicholas the Wonderworker
St. Nicholas is considered one of the most responsive saints. You can contact him in moments of despair, joy, with gratitude or for help. He will bestow mercy and take away the sorrow, relieve from the burden and give joy. One of the most famous prayers read to Nicholas is called protect your husband on a long journey:
"Oh, Saint Nicholas, hear us (the names of travelers), And pray to the Lord God for us, that He be merciful to us, He did not pay back according to our deeds and be lenient. Deliver us from adversity and sorrow along the way. Let us not be bogged down sinful. Pray for us, Nicholas, for a peaceful life, for salvation, for our souls! Amen! "
To bear the proud title of a man and husband is not easy. Constant rivalry with similar ones and competition in work, on a personal front - all this can take away the strength and drive the husband into depression. To alleviate his difficulties, refer to Nicholas the Wonderworker as follows:
"Oh, the all-good-hearted Father Nicholas, the shepherd and teacher of all who come to your intercession and warmly call upon you to your intercession! Soon, drag and save Christ's flock from the wolves who destroy it; save every Christian country and keep your holy prayers from the worldly rebellion, coward, invasions of foreigners and internecine warfare, against irony, flood, fire, sword, and death in vain, and, if you have mercy on three men in prison, and have saved their king and wrath from the sword, mercy on me, mind, word and deed in death being ve on me the wrath of God and eternal punishment, like a yes to your request and help. His mercy and the grace of Christ, God is quiet and saintly life will pozhiti mi Weeze in the family and on me may deliver shuiyago standing, grant that same desnago with all the saints. Amen. "
The saint will not refuse prayer for health to his beloved spouse:
"O all pious, great miracle-working, to the saint of Christ, Father Nicholas! We pray the hope and hope of all Christians, faithful defenders, hunger-hungry feeder, weeping joy, sick doctor, sea-going ruler, poor and orphan feeder, and all the speedy helper and patron, yes Peacefully live here and live and be honored to see the glory of the elect of God in heaven, and with them incessantly chant the one God in the Trinity of the worshiped God forever and ever. Amen. "
Having prayed about a specific subject, do not forget to also say thankful words to Saint Nicholas, and during the next visit to the temple, light a candle in front of his icon.
Protection against cheating
Marital infidelity - a heavy cross for a woman. It is difficult to imagine that a loved one betrays, morally or physically. It is hard to survive treason, for some it becomes such a strong blow that they cannot recover from it for a long time or even make a decision about the termination of the marriage. If a woman feels that her spouse is potentially capable of treason, for her own comfort she should read prayer to the Mother of Godthat will take over her pain:
"Our Lady, Virgin, rejoice! Gracious Mary, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you in women. And blessed is the fruit of your body, like the Savior gave birth to our souls. I renounce the servant (name) from treason, I save his soul, I protect my family. How are you small and sir, so also every one, Who has a chest, grows shallower in front of me. All are more in the heart of a slave (name). "
Does not interfere with enlist the assistance and St. Nicholas. Contact the pleaser with the following words:
"Wonderworker Nicholas, I appeal to you with a prayer. Forgive me for asking perishable and save me from mournful suspicion. Protect my husband from lowly treason and save his soul from deceitful deed. Save him from the beauties of tempting and subdue passionate fervor when betraying sin.
Do not punish me for this distrust, but do not deny the miraculous intercession. Thy will be done. Amen".
A woman who reads a prayer-charm from treason should be aware that this is a religious appeal, not a love spell. To resort to magic, even if it is "white", should only be in exceptional situations. Try to look at the problem from a different angle: there is a chance that you can improve relations with the help of a frank conversation or consultation of a family psychologist.
Preservation of marriage
Family is a tremendous value, the preservation of which lies on the shoulders of both spouses. All of us are ordinary people with their own shortcomings and drawbacks, therefore in family life there are not only pleasant romantic moments, but also quarrels, offenses, deprivations and difficulties, often turning communication between a couple into a true branch of hell. We are influenced by hundreds of factors: stress at work, problems with money, feeling unwell - but it’s not permissible to fall in love with a loved one, although this happens quite often.
In order for the world to reign in marriage, it is important to look for compromises. If they torture their own complexes and offenses, it is not easy to do this. Prayer to the Lord will help. The following Orthodox text is considered to be the strongest prayer book for preserving the marriage bond:
"Lord, Heavenly King, the Comforter, help me in the good work, in saving my family. Hear me, sinful and unworthy, in this hour praying to You. With tears in my eyes, I pray Thee: Understand God's servant (name), my husband Collect the erring one and put the right one on the way. Preach him to be a good and worthy husband for his wife. Arouse the heart of God's servant (name) in my heart to love me, his wife, and show all his foulness, melt his love Do not let us destroy the family, give us the family blessing. Lord, protect my husband from Dyavolsky temptations and sinful life. In particular, fall and protect the servant of God (name) from all misfortunes and evil demons who want to devour him and bring him to hell alive. Teach my husband to live according to Thy covenants: to love your wife, to care for her and carry her Responsibility. Teach Thy servant (name) to begin everything from the beginning, forget and forgive all offenses against me. live together according to thy commandments. I hope for your help, O Lord. Amen".
Family life brings both peace and frustration. Weigh them on the scale. If the positive outweighs, fight for your marriage with all available means. Prayer for the preservation of the family hearth is the simplest, but no less effective method. Consider that marriage is a permanent job, and you need to work not only to correct the mistakes of a husband, but also to correct your own shortcomings.
