True sages realized that true happiness is not the attainment of the desired, not the realization of the goals, but the absence of critical, crucial difficulties in life.
So, we can become absolutely happy and satisfied people if, with the help of wisdom and experience, we avoid the obstacles that cause problems and troubles in our lives.
Do you want to become happy and build a beautiful and eventful life around you ?! Immediately begin to avoid the following obstacles:
The first hurdle is unfinished business
If you want to improve your life, you need to learn how to bring important and really meaningful things to the end. This is the number one rule for people who see their future bright and bright.
Most people have already gathered a whole swarm of unfinished business. Needless to say, all tasks are really difficult to master, it is possible that even this is not necessary. However, really important and significant things must be completed. Keep a weekly, memorize, plan - do whatever you want in order to structure your time and manage to complete the most important and most important things in your life. Unfortunately, unfinished business over time can turn into an excessive load. Such a burden draws into the past and does not give a chance to come to life new.
May your affairs be always in order! It is not necessary to do everything yourself, you can refuse unnecessary tasks or delegate matters to another person in charge, but it is important not to accumulate unfinished business that pulls down. Make it your habit to get things done to the end, whatever it might be: diet, project, commitment, and more. Your life will become much simpler, more promising, disciplined and easier.
The second hurdle is ignoring the present
Here we are talking about the law: "What you reap, you reap." Our present is the result of actions and actions that we performed in our past. And the future is the result of actions and deeds that we commit today. If you approach the present with your mind and gratitude, your actions, thoughts and words, they will become a solid and confident foundation for a wonderful future.
Any area of your life can be improved by following this simple law. Do you need to save up money? Start procrastinating from today (albeit little by little, but regularly). Do you need to bring the body to a perfect norm and part with extra pounds? Start playing sports today and eat less. Do you want to meet a loved one? Become more feminine, kind and affectionate from today. Remember, what we do today will certainly affect our future. This is the law and the rule! Try to use it for your own good.
The third hurdle is the lack of priorities
In order to find time for really important activities and things, you must always keep them in focus and not lose sight. If a spontaneous idea has arisen in your pretty little head that you caught fire with, do not rush to implement it. You ask why not to do the thing that is most pleasant and pleasant to you now ?! It's simple - if you spend your time on the first things that come across, even very attractive ones, you will not have time for realizing really worthwhile things.
The fourth hurdle is self-deception
If you want to become the most evil and greedy enemy for yourself - try to engage in self-deception. The most pernicious form of disrespect for oneself is called a lie to oneself. She leads nowhere, giving nothing in return. However, a huge number of people, mainly women, from time to time are given to self-deception:
- he is good, he just has a complex character;
- children are obedient, just now they have another age crisis;
- I love my job, I just got tired and very tired;
- I did not get better, just the jeans sat down ....
And so on to infinity. What to do with such a widespread obstacle to a bright and joyful life? Everything, as always, is quite simple. Try to recall all the times when you indulged in self-deception and were not honest with the closest person in the world - with yourself. Think about the wrong attitudes in your life and try not to deceive yourself anymore.
The fifth obstacle - pleasing others to the detriment of their own interests
The sure way to become unhappy, embittered, and always failing is to always say yes to everyone (even when you want to say no, never in the world). Women who always agree to requests to please other people (it doesn’t matter to friends, close relatives, family members) lose control of their own lives.
In order to start building a beautiful life around you, you need to get rid of this addiction. Learn to defend your boundaries and interests. We do not recommend you to become selfish always and denying requests to everyone. No, not at all! We just want to draw your attention to the fact that by pleasing others to the detriment of yourself, you are constraining yourself, losing life energy and energy for other people's goals, deeds and values. Think about it: do you need it?
Sixth obstacle - energy leakage
We need vital energy in order to build a beautiful life around us as we see fit. But daily problems, difficulties, conflicts lead to the loss of a huge amount of vitality. In difficult situations, it is important to maintain calm, equanimity and the belief that everything will be resolved in the best way. How else?!
Save a vital energy will help a clear schedule, which tunes in efficiency and measured. We also recommend simplifying tasks, where possible, in time to replenish your strength with the help of a good rest (walks in the fresh air, creativity, massage, spa, talking with children, etc.).
Seventh hurdle - complaints instead of questions
The sages say that we all get exactly as much as we asked. Notice, not as much as they deserved or suffered, earned, but how much they deigned to request. Openly tell the world and people what you need and what you would like. Try never to complain - this is an unconstructive waste of energy.
The Eighth Obstacle - Inadequate Reserves
Each girl has a certain set of reserves that we need for a comfortable and normal life. The larger and deeper such a reservoir, the more complete, "full" and saturated life.
Of course, in order to have a sufficiently good supply of reserves (time, money, energy), it is necessary to work on this. For this, most likely, you will have to regularly exclude the usual things from life that lead to a decrease in stocks in your tank. But having paused and accumulated supporting reserves, we attract favorable opportunities and situations, and then we have every chance to succeed in life and build wonderful prospects around us. But the lack of supporting reserves leads to erroneous decisions and disappointments.
Ninth obstacle - denial of one's own shortcomings
Never be shy or deny your flaws! You can’t even imagine how quickly and deftly the “minus” can turn into a “plus”. A huge number of people, including famous ones, were not afraid to turn the flaw into their crown highlight and attract admiring glances.
In addition, your shortcomings will help you become more honest with yourself and with people. Better warn others that you, for example, like to gossip or are always late. In this case, you provide the person with important information about yourself, demonstrate honesty and win his heart!
Tenth obstacle - desire instead of planning
The mistake of most people who could not achieve what they wanted was that they only dreamed, but made no attempt to realize their idea. If you just want something strongly, sitting on the couch and not lifting a finger, your desire is unlikely to come true. It doesn’t happen!
If you want to build a wonderful, wonderful life around you, take action. Do at least a small part, at least something for this and you will be surprised that everything is possible and not so difficult!
