The first date is very exciting. You already incredibly like a guy, but you still don't know how to behave with him. Some young ladies are too shy, others, on the contrary, show their dark sides. Let the man know who he has to deal with.
Many argue that it is best to be yourself. They probably just never fell in love or had already forgotten when they went on a date for the last time. It's impossible. I want to seem better. How to realize your desire and appear before him as a princess, and not one of the evil sisters. After all, even they had good intentions!
Appearance
What to wear on a first date is one of the most difficult questions for any girl.
- Put on the best underwear even if you’re not going to show it to anyone. So, you will feel much more confident. A girl in expensive and beautiful underwear will never be in a stupid position, well, you never know what. Even under clothes you are incredibly charming.
- Before a responsible date buy new tights. No matter how often you go on your first dates, you can afford to pack new stockings - without holes and spots. By the way, a good option to bring along a spare pair, just in case.
- Do not wear uncomfortable shoes, a sticky skirt and any elements that will annoy you and make you feel not very comfortable. If you scratch yourself, always straighten your dress, or tug at an uncomfortable collar, he might think you're nervous or have lice. Of course, he would not run around the restaurant, like a little one shouting: “Sifa,” but the second time he might not call.
- Do not bet on extravagant details. Keep it simple. Do not pin smart brooches, large flowers or wear a hat to your dress. The first time it’s better not to shock the guy and look like a simple girl from the people.
Leave the hand-made for the second and third dates, when the man can already hint to you that these ridiculous things will make him laugh. Well, there are different men! Not everyone is ready to sit next to a SO bright girl.
- Put on the dress. Modern women rarely wear dresses. You will look feminine. This is what you need for a first date. A man will certainly appreciate. Note that glossy magazine covers rarely wear trousers.
Manners
- Learn from the stars. Have you seen how celebrities behave? They wear the simplest things, they have no pathos. No matter how much their clothes cost, they do not defile in them, do not carry them, as at an exhibition. THIS IS JUST A DRESS, and they are ordinary people. Only much more self-confident than us, but why? No, this is not due to the price tag or the quality of their belongings, they look premium in home clothes. The fact is that the rich know the value of the contents of their clothes, that is, MYSELF. Don't show off.
- Talk so that only your interlocutor can hear you. A man can tolerate the fact that you do not know how to use a knife and a fork, it is not so important for him exactly how you eat mussels, but he will never tolerate a loud woman. Carefully watch your voice and laughter, you do not need to attract attention in such a way.
- Even if you really like him, try hard smile less and giggle as stupid as possible. You are not a fool. He went on a date with you; he is no better than you. He already really likes you. Be calm, do not ruin everything. Often repeat to yourself something life-affirming. “I'm Angelina Jolie! I'm Angelina Jolie! I'm Angelina Jolie! ” True, you should not behave like a stone statue. Naturalness, only naturalness.
What can’t you talk about with a man?
Oh ex!
This is the golden rule of a first date. Do not. Nothing good will come of it. You are not yet close enough to share this side of life. Is it really so important to you who your potential boyfriend has met and what is the reason for their breakup?
Do you think he will tell you the whole truth? He will tell about how she stopped feeling his love, began to eat a lot and get fat. It became difficult for him to show his love for this fat girl, but she did not let up ... As a result, they started having problems in bed. He did this through "I don't want to." She became less and less satisfied, and he became more and more miserable. Why do you need to know all this? Do you want to make him return to her?
Leave it. His attitude towards you will not be like previous stories. If he is smart, he will try to change everything and not step on the old rake. If he begins to ask these questions, answer with a smile that he is your first. Let him know that your past is left behind.
Football, cars and beer
Do not talk on male topics with a new acquaintance. You can argue with him about the silicone breasts of the waitress or the real one! Even if you understand cars and know a lot about football, leave these topics for other meetings.
He does not know you yet, and most likely will think: “Here she has problems in her personal life. She had killed so much time studying these boring topics. And all this in order to talk with a man? Interested in yourself? These are the complexes ... "
You are a woman, no one expects from you fundamental knowledge about the structure of the driveshaft. You are made for other conversations. You don’t want to be with this man in the garage. It’s so romantic to fix his six and drink vodka at the same time. Successful men give their iron horses for repair, and there they conjure magic fairies in oiled overalls. You should not live by stereotypes, not all men love football and know where the car has a motor.
What to talk with a man
Usually, on first dates it is customary to ask about the life of the interlocutor, to look for common interests (usually a reading) and tell some nonsense about yourself. You can act on this scheme, proven over the years. Importantly, do not be silent. If he is a man, this does not mean that he should entertain you and pull at least some information from you. We are created to help the stronger sex, here help. Just in case, remember all sorts of stupid questions, so that in case of which you could ask and save the conversation from a minute of silence for at least another 5 minutes.
Where did you last rest? -> Oh, and I'm more attracted to European sights -> Would you agree to live in another country? -> Why do you think everyone is so eager to leave Russia.
Bring it on general, global, discussion topics. Even if you agree, think of other points of view (“I agree with you, but I recently argued about this with a friend and she believes that ... An interesting opinion, can not you find it?).
Instead of delving into his past, put him in an unusual environment. Suggest situations in which he never found himself, and perhaps never will be. So you can learn much more interesting information about him than by asking about the former.
Don't be afraid to look eccentric. By the way, one of the most interesting questions that they asked me, picking up this strategy of behavior: “If you were in the past and saw little Hitler, would you kill him?” Agree, it’s hard to forget such conversations, as well as the person with whom they are held . You take him beyond reality.
Be unpredictable and stunning, but at the same time simple and natural. It is most important. It will definitely be yours, you just have to try a little.
